Relationships, be they girlfriend boyfriend or Married couples are difficult to maintain in our changing world. Males and females are wired so differently by nature. It is not just emotions and logic but by the very mental, and physical design, they are opposites. Spirituality is the uniting point in a relationship. What is known universally as love is the the 3rd transceding dimension of a human relationship. And herin lies the struggle between the male and female to get to this light of understanding. Ours is a very material world and although we cannot negate the material aspect of our lives, we cannot negate the spiritual nature of our being in life. Couples married or not reach a initial bond spiritually which then dissipates because they do not share in their growth and evolution as souls. They are not conscious of what they are doing and the powerful forces of the world pulling them in many directions. We live, in the world of constant and rapid change. Social media has impacted our lives in good ways and some bad ways. Phones are used to hide and deceive. How many times have I heard a girlfriend or wife in counseling say "I went through his phone and I caught him cheating with another worman".
Ours is a fast moving and throw away society. We have become things and temporary things at that. We change jobs and relationships like we change clothes. We look for things temporal and not eternal. "We grew apart", "he no longer makes me happy". "I can't forgive him or her". The relationship ends but the pain continues and is transferred to the next relationship.
It is important in our times and probably more important than at anytime in the creation of male and female, that we seek a Spiritual bond with ourselves first and with those we love. Relationships are Roses but we want the Roses without the thorns, the harvist without the work and eternity but only if it is temporary.
Finally in the 21st century we must embrace the Spiritual and Eternal forces that brought us into being as Husband and Wife and as a couple. Growth is struggle and sometimes painful. You can have the Rose but you must Spiritually accept the Thorns. And within those Thorns lies the blessings and the growth, the children, old age, evolution and the immortality of love and your oness.
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